I am a mother of three boys adopted from Russia and I parent a lot of trauma. I say that because under all of their outward behaviors there are sweet boys under there wanting love from a mama and papa. Outwardly, they show us rejection and unlovable behavior.
I want adoptive parents to know they are not alone because parenting trauma is very lonely place. You are judge like never before and you lose friends and family. I know because I live it.